...oh my god I hadn't even thought about Roisin do Sophie and Adrien want to take her on an extended vacation somewhere with Sitara and safety and not Cadogan making himself sick about his mother. Please. She was killed in a riot against her son's status in her original universe I can't with my own heart.

Also, my guess would be that if people can't remember your family showing up, you're fine. So families for four generations or so would be okay unless they make a big deal about being 'new blood.' Thoughts from other people?